I have to admit that lunches at my house are pretty easy.
My husband's company provides him with lunch every day and my kids are homeschooled, so I don't have to pack any lunches. Lunches for us usually consist of sandwiches. My boys love the old peanut butter and jelly standby, and would eat it for three meals a day if I let them (we'll stick with one meal a day). My daughter and I are a little more discriminating. We simply cannot bring ourselves to eat pb&j every day. We usually eat whatever leftovers are in the fridge from dinner the night before. If there aren't any leftovers, we eat a can of soup or a sandwich of lunch meat. And that's that. No planning involved.
When Hubby is home on the weekends I have to plan our lunches out a bit more. Green salads from our garden are always a good bet. Tuna and egg salad sandwiches or cheese quesadillas are good, too. Or something simple like frozen fish sticks or chicken nuggets. As you can see, lunch is all about convenience. Dinners are really our big meal of the day.
For an afternoon snack we try to do something like baby carrots or peaches we canned during the summer. Or we may do graham crackers, or make cheese and cracker "sandwiches," or even go for some unhealthy stuff like homemade brownies or cookies.
I have found that snack foods are some of the most expensive convenience foods in the grocery store, so we rarely eat things like snack cakes or chips.
I have found that for us, being frugal is all about taking the time to make things from scratch. Did you know you can make fruit leathers, a.k.a. Fruit Roll-ups in the oven (or a dehydrator) very easily? How easy is it to combine three ingredients and pop some peanut butter cookies in the oven? Instead of buying bags of microwave popcorn (the butter can cause "popcorn workers lung"), we throw some popcorn kernels and some oil in an electric air popper.
My goal that I have been working on for some time now is take all those name brand convenience foods we pay so much for and find a way to make them from scratch at home. And it's not just about being frugal. Making them at home eliminates most of the chemicals and preservatives found in store-bought items. Pick up a bag of microwave popcorn and read the ingredients. Now compare that to the two ingredients (kernels and oil) we use to make it at home.
Yes, it takes more time to make things at home. Is there time you are willing to give up? How about that television show you always watch, or how about cutting down on your computer time? Just an hour a day spent baking and creating in the kitchen can lead to all kinds of new discoveries. And how much better would it be if the kids helped? They can learn to be creative and gain some quality, fun time with mom or dad.
I'm not saying it's for everyone. If you absolutely abhor making things from scratch or if you honestly feel you don't have the time, that's okay. Only you can decide if you are willing to trade some of your time for a healthier family that spends less money and is more self-sufficient.
Saturday, October 4, 2008
Thursday, October 2, 2008
Frugal breakfast
Because my last post on feeding my family for $150 a month seemed to generate such interest, I guess I'll just expand on that theme for the next few days.
I've got to go to the church in just a bit, where I will be volunteering all day. So for today we'll just concentrate on what my family does for breakfast. Tomorrow we'll get into lunch, then we'll do dinner, which is a bit more complicated. Then we'll look at menu plans and shopping lists.
Let me start by saying I have a love/hate relationship with cold cereal. I love it because the kids can fix it themselves, freeing me up to do other things (like drag myself very slowly into my clothes).
I hate cold cereal because we can go through one box in two days, so unless you have a great coupon it's not very economical. And let's face it - cold cereal is generally not very healthy.
On the bright side, it's easy to find coupons for cereal. And if you combine, say a $1 off coupon with a sale of say, $2 a box, you can get a box of cereal for $1 (you can get them regularly priced without coupons at Aldi's for $1.29 - $1.89).
So yes, I buy cold cereal - but I am slowly but surely working my way away from it. In the meantime, I buy only cereals that have a bit more nutritious value - like raisin bran or shredded wheat. My kids never get cereals with bright colors or marshmallows unless a coupon enabled me to get the cereal almost for free.
So were does that leave us when we are not eating cereal? Many days I will fix homemade biscuits, and the kids enjoy them with butter and/or jelly. I would love to get my picky kids to eat oatmeal, and am slowly working toward that goal. "The Simple Dollar" did a great tutorial on making homemade "instant" flavored oatmeal packets.
You may notice that I haven't yet mentioned what Hubby likes for breakfast. That's because he chooses to skip breakfast on weekdays so he can get a few extra minutes of sleep. On weekends, we usually have homemade pancakes on Saturdays and scrambled eggs and grits on Sundays. We raise a few chickens that provide us with all the eggs we need without having to buy any. And if you're not southern and don't know what grits are... well, I can't help you - you darn Yankee!
Just kidding! Can you believe I've eaten grits all my life but didn't really know what they were or where they come from? But I looked it up just for you!
According to Wikkipedia, grits are an American Indian corn-based food common in the Southern United States, consisting of coarsely ground corn. It is traditionally served during breakfast. Traditionally the corn for grits is ground by a stone mill. The results are passed through screens, with the finer part being corn meal, and the coarser being grits.
I buy our grits from a produce store that sells only local food items. The grits come straight from a nearby mill. I keep them in the freezer. They don't really freeze but it keeps out bugs and keeps the grits fresh.
Another frugal option for breakfast that I'm trying to get kids to eat is muffins. They can be made the night before and will therefore be ready for breakfast with no preparation in the morning.
As far as breakfast drinks go, I let the kids drink milk (if they are not getting it in their cereal) or water. That's it. Occasionally (with a coupon) I will buy orange juice and they are allowed to drink that.
By the way, you may notice from some of the links that I use recipes from the Hillbilly Housewife Web site. If you are looking for really frugal recipes, this is the place to go. I have been using the Web site since Miss Maggie owned it. It has changed hands but the new owner does a great job, too, and I love the monthly e-mail newsletter. She also has recipes for homemade pancake syrup. I am going to try this very soon because we go through a lot of syrup.
Hint: If you're looking on that site for breakfast foods, everyone in my family but me hated the cornmeal mush. I liked it, though, so you never know.
I've got to go to the church in just a bit, where I will be volunteering all day. So for today we'll just concentrate on what my family does for breakfast. Tomorrow we'll get into lunch, then we'll do dinner, which is a bit more complicated. Then we'll look at menu plans and shopping lists.
Let me start by saying I have a love/hate relationship with cold cereal. I love it because the kids can fix it themselves, freeing me up to do other things (like drag myself very slowly into my clothes).
I hate cold cereal because we can go through one box in two days, so unless you have a great coupon it's not very economical. And let's face it - cold cereal is generally not very healthy.
On the bright side, it's easy to find coupons for cereal. And if you combine, say a $1 off coupon with a sale of say, $2 a box, you can get a box of cereal for $1 (you can get them regularly priced without coupons at Aldi's for $1.29 - $1.89).
So yes, I buy cold cereal - but I am slowly but surely working my way away from it. In the meantime, I buy only cereals that have a bit more nutritious value - like raisin bran or shredded wheat. My kids never get cereals with bright colors or marshmallows unless a coupon enabled me to get the cereal almost for free.
So were does that leave us when we are not eating cereal? Many days I will fix homemade biscuits, and the kids enjoy them with butter and/or jelly. I would love to get my picky kids to eat oatmeal, and am slowly working toward that goal. "The Simple Dollar" did a great tutorial on making homemade "instant" flavored oatmeal packets.
You may notice that I haven't yet mentioned what Hubby likes for breakfast. That's because he chooses to skip breakfast on weekdays so he can get a few extra minutes of sleep. On weekends, we usually have homemade pancakes on Saturdays and scrambled eggs and grits on Sundays. We raise a few chickens that provide us with all the eggs we need without having to buy any. And if you're not southern and don't know what grits are... well, I can't help you - you darn Yankee!
Just kidding! Can you believe I've eaten grits all my life but didn't really know what they were or where they come from? But I looked it up just for you!
According to Wikkipedia, grits are an American Indian corn-based food common in the Southern United States, consisting of coarsely ground corn. It is traditionally served during breakfast. Traditionally the corn for grits is ground by a stone mill. The results are passed through screens, with the finer part being corn meal, and the coarser being grits.
I buy our grits from a produce store that sells only local food items. The grits come straight from a nearby mill. I keep them in the freezer. They don't really freeze but it keeps out bugs and keeps the grits fresh.
Another frugal option for breakfast that I'm trying to get kids to eat is muffins. They can be made the night before and will therefore be ready for breakfast with no preparation in the morning.
As far as breakfast drinks go, I let the kids drink milk (if they are not getting it in their cereal) or water. That's it. Occasionally (with a coupon) I will buy orange juice and they are allowed to drink that.
By the way, you may notice from some of the links that I use recipes from the Hillbilly Housewife Web site. If you are looking for really frugal recipes, this is the place to go. I have been using the Web site since Miss Maggie owned it. It has changed hands but the new owner does a great job, too, and I love the monthly e-mail newsletter. She also has recipes for homemade pancake syrup. I am going to try this very soon because we go through a lot of syrup.
Hint: If you're looking on that site for breakfast foods, everyone in my family but me hated the cornmeal mush. I liked it, though, so you never know.
Wednesday, October 1, 2008
Feeding a family of 5 on $150 a month

Today I decided to participate in Works for me Wednesday. Today's theme is supposed to be kitchen organization, but I am branching out to include organizing my shopping to feed my family... from the kitchen. Does that count?
I feed my family of five on $150 a month. It's not rocket science, but it does take discipline. The $150 a month includes all toiletries and paper supplies but doesn't include pet food. Here's some tips on how I do it.
Every two weeks, on payday, I go to two stores. First I take the coupons I have collected from the Sunday newspaper ($1 a week) and from online deals to Walmart.
I see Walmart as one of those necessary evils. I hate the crowds there, and I don't like the fact that most of their products come from cheap overseas labor. But their prices are low and I consistently spend less there than I do at other discount or grocery stores. I don't use a ton of coupons (maybe about 10 per trip) but I do use the ones that allow me to get really good deals. I also buy anything I know that Aldi's doesn't carry, or the occasional rare item that my family is brand loyal to (like feminine care products).
Then I go to Aldi's. The good thing about Aldi's is they almost always have the exact same items (although they do get a few limited-time-only items). I know what they have, and I always know how much they cost because Aldi's doesn't do sales. So I can check and see if I can get a better deal at Walmart with or without a coupon. I buy most of my basics from Aldi's - baking supplies, cheese, canned goods, cereal. On non-pay weeks I make a quick trip to either Aldi's or Walmart (depending on what I need) to buy milk and anything I forgot.
Be aware, you have to bag your own groceries at Aldi's, and you can either buy grocery bags or bring your own. Since I always try to use my eco-friendly cloth grocery bags anyway, this is not a problem for me. And, control-freak that I am, I actually prefer to bag my own groceries!
I don't buy very many cleaning supplies or laundry supplies. I make my own all-purpose cleaner, glass cleaner, bathroom cleaner and laundry detergent.
I cook from scratch as often as possible. Not only does this save money, but it is usually healthier for my family, as I don't include all the preservatives and chemicals that are in most store-bought foods.
With the exception of toilet paper, I don't buy paper products. We use rags for cleaning and cloth napkins for meals. I do buy one roll of paper towels every month or so. This roll is used almost strictly for cleaning up things that would be very sticky in the washing machine, such as peanut butter.
During the warm months, we grow a large garden. I am slowly but surely learning to preserve these foods for winter by canning, freezing and dehydrating.
I make a menu plan and stick to it. I have discovered from experience that when I don't make a menu before going to the store, I overspend.
Every week I make a half gallon of what I call "cooking milk." It's reconstituted powdered milk (from Aldi's). My family will not drink reconstituted milk plain or eat it in cereal because it is watery, but I have found that it works fine for cooking. I add it whenever a recipe calls for milk.
I don't do CVS, Walgreens or any of those other programs. They are great, and I tried CVS for about three months. But I found that it was a lot of work and extra gas to go every week, and if I didn't go every week I missed out on deals and/or eventually forget to spend my extra bucks. Time is money!
I rarely buy snacks, soda or boxed convenience foods. Instead, I bake or make snacks. Yes, my children miss out on all that junk loaded down with food coloring, but is that a bad thing?
I don't have to buy diapers, wipes, formula, etc. My youngest baby is 5, so I don't need any of that. But I have a friend, Southern Blessings, who uses the deals at CVS to pay for her baby's diapers. That might be worth it, but honestly, at this point in my life I would probably just use cloth diapers.
If I find a great deal via coupons, etc., I stockpile. I will buy as many as a I can as long as I don't go over my budget and as long as the item is not perishable.
We have seriously cut back on our meat intake. I usually buy two whole chickens and 5 pounds of ground beef every two weeks. Both are extremely versatile, and I can get three very different meals out of one chicken. We rarely eat pork (it's just not a favorite), and we don't buy roasts, steaks or other cuts of beef unless there is a really good sale.
I recently started using cash instead of my debit card. When I know I have to pay with what is in my wallet, I am more careful about my spending.
I don't take the kids with me to the grocery store. Trying to keep up with three kids is distracting and causes me to make mistakes. It also means they become susceptible to marketing schemes. The latest cartoon character on a cereal box or the latest fruit snack they saw on a commercial can really break my budget. So can all that candy and stuff at the check-out lines.
If I have money leftover in my grocery budget (which isn't that often) I will occasionally go to a local salvage grocery store, where they sell dented cans and such, and stock up on some items. We ate organic pasta that I got from the salvage grocery store for months.
I love to answer questions, so feel free to leave one on the comments or e-mail me.
Book Review: It's Not About Me

I really enjoyed Michelle Sutton's debut novel. It addressed several issues that I think we, as Christians, often face.
Bad things do happen to good people, but people can overcome those things with the help of Christ.
Things don't always turn out like we thought/hoped they would.
God uses bad circumstances to turn our lives around for good.
There are still good, God-fearing men out there.
We must be careful not to confuse those men (and women) who those who profess to be Christians but are not.
Things don't always turn out like we thought/hoped they would.
God uses bad circumstances to turn our lives around for good.
There are still good, God-fearing men out there.
We must be careful not to confuse those men (and women) who those who profess to be Christians but are not.
The other question this book asked is, "Are you really saved?" There are tons of people walking around churches professing to be Christians, but do they really have a personal relationship with Christ?
This is a Christian fiction book with great characters and a great story line. It captured my interest from the first page and held it until the last. The story deals with everything from premarital sex to alcohol, but in a way in which most young people can relate.The heroine is a recent high school grad, but the issues are ones that could plague people of any age. This would make a great gift for a girl who just graduated from high school. I can't wait to read the next novel in Sutton's series (due out in September of 2009).

ABOUT THE BOOK: Annie has it all. She's attractive, graduated with honors, was accepted at the college of her choice, has supportive parents, good friends, and a steady boyfriend who loves her. One night an unexpected visitor appears and Annie's safe world is destroyed by a brutal attack. As she tries to pick up the pieces of her broken life, she is torn between two brothers, both of whom claim to love her. She is attracted to both, but which one does she love? How can she choose when her decision may cause a permanent rift between them? And more important, will she give her heart to the One who will sustain her even when human love fails.

ABOUT THE AUTHOR: Michelle Sutton has lived in Arizona and since 1991 and has two sons and a husband of 18 years. She began writing fiction in August 2003 when God inspired her to write a novel with realistic characters that would glorify Him. In 2004 she joined ACFW - American Christian Fiction Writers. In 2006 Michelle ran for Volunteer Officer on the ACFW Operating board and ACFW members elected her to serve a two year term. She sold her first manuscript Then Sings My Soul (now re-titled It's Not About Me) to Sheaf House and her debut novel was released in Sept. 2008. The second book in the Second Glances series - It's Not About Him - will be released the following fall (Sept. 2009.) Last, Michelle is Editor in Chief of the new Christian Fiction Online Magazine. The debut issue released in July 2008. The magazine is sponsored by the Christian Fiction Blog Alliance.
Monday, September 29, 2008
A hidden gem in a tiny town
Homesteading doesn't lend itself to having a lot of money leftover for vacations, so we keep ours cheap and simple, yet fun!One of the most frugal ways to take a vacation is to find some friends who are willing to open up their home for you. For the past few days we been at the home of a family of wonderful people. Southern Blessings lives about two hours from us, and my family always enjoy spending time at her home.
She lives in the country where the kids can run in and out all day and don't have to ask if they can go outside. When they aren't indoors playing, the children run amongst the chickens and guineas while doing their best to avoid the many fire ant hills (one of the few pitfalls of this particular area of the country).
Our husbands spent time fishing and my friend Nancy and I had plenty of time to visit with each other and even to drive to nearby towns to do some shopping at thrift stores. One of the places Nancy introduced me to was the River Rock Marketplace, a flea market with everything from antiques to modern "junk."
I loved the Marketplace, and fell in love with the building itself. It is made from true river rocks, not that fake facade that people call rock nowadays. Apparently the building used to be a school and even a sewing mill before it became the Marketplace. In a tiny town off the beaten path in South Carolina, not many people find this gem. I was sure happy that Nancy showed it to me!
Wednesday, September 24, 2008
A family field trip
Today we took the kids on a field trip to a county park. This particular park is in a neighboring city and offers a small wildlife habitat, a petting barn, a carousel, a mini-train, paddle-boats, miniature golf, camping and a fishing lake. That's me, above, with the kids in the nature center. No, I'm not really shorter than my kids, lol, they are standing on a ledge while I am standing on the ground.Because we went on a weekday when most kids are in school, it was peaceful and quiet, and made for a great family adventure.
I only brought a $20 bill so we wouldn't spend any more than that. At the end of the day I had $1 left, and our family of five had bought tickets for the wildlife habitat ($1 each), the petting barn (50 cents each), two park fishing passes for Hubby and Justin, 13, ($2.50 each; Hubby already had his state fishing license which was also required for adults), and drinks for everyone. For lunch we ate cans of viennas that I had tossed into a backpack along with some styrofoam bowls.
Since the kids learned all about local wildlife like black bears, red wolves, bobcats and hawks, the day was educational. We even got to see a couple of bald eagles up close. At the barn, the kids got to pet goats, a miniature donkey and a calf. The farm animals didn't come with educational signs or materials, but it was still fun to pet them!
Then Hubby and Justin fished while the rest of us fed the many ducks and geese. For 25 cents, we could buy an ice cream cone filled with waterfowl feed. Most of the ducks were wild breeds, but the one lone Peking duck, below, was more aggressive and tried to snatch food out of our hands (he got a couple of fingers in the process)!
It was so peaceful and beautiful that I told the kids they could take off their shoes and socks and wade in the water. Swimming is not allowed, but I figured wading didn't count. The boys took fishing lures without hooks and played with them in the water. Adam, 5, apparently decided he couldn't bend over and play in the water, so he ended up sitting down in the water up to his waist - which meant that once he got out of the water 30 minutes later we couldn't stay much longer. He was soaking wet and the wind was blowing.
At one point while walking around the lake fishing and having a good time, we came across a small, injured duck in some rocks next to the bank. The duck couldn't walk, fly or do anything but drag itself a few inches on its belly. A pile of feathers on the bank told the story that the duck had probably been attacked by a predator but managed to escaped into the edge of the lake waters.
Even though it was a wild duck, it was obviously feeling badly. And because we were on the far side of the lake with only the woods at our back, we picked the duck up and carried it around the lake to the nearest concession stand, where they called a park ranger. The duck seemed to know we were there to help and was very docile. It never even tried to bite. We waited with it until the ranger came and took it away to the wildlife center.
Hopefully the day will become a wonderful memory for the children.
Monday, September 15, 2008
BFFF: Best feline friends forever

Those tiny kitties that we bottle-fed are now 15 weeks old, and doing well. The biggest difference between now and then is that Pumpkin (the orange and white one) turned out to be a boy. He was always more vocal and much more food-oriented than Sonora, but now he is also turning out to be quite muscular. Because "Pumpkin" was deemed too sissy, we are working on changing his name to "Jack" - so named because we decided he is going from being a pumpkin to a jack-o-lantern.
Sonora has turned into a loving, affectionate, little girl and Pumpkin - I mean Jack - has turned into a demanding and pushy, but beautiful big boy.
We considered giving one of them away, but look at these faces. They do everything together and I think they would be heart-broken to be separated. They are not only litter mates, they are best friends forever!
Subscribe to: Posts (Atom)

![[image]](http://mowser.com/img?url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.christianwomenonline.net%2FBlogrollGirlGraphic2.jpg)














![[image]](http://mowser.com/img?url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.greatprofilemusic.com%2Fmc%2Fimages%2Fcreate_black.jpg)
![[image]](http://mowser.com/img?url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.greatprofilemusic.com%2Fmc%2Fimages%2Flaunch_black.jpg)
![[image]](http://mowser.com/img?url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.greatprofilemusic.com%2Fmc%2Fimages%2Fget_black.jpg)