Grandmothers' Raising Grandchildren Creed Submitted by Sue Grandmothers' Raising Grandchildren Creed
I will do my best to stand in the gap as a responsible parent until which time the natural parents become responsible.I will create a stable environment so that my grandchild will feel safe.I will use experience and wisdom making fewer mistakes than with my own children.I will not allow others to dictate to me or influence my decisions, my direction will come from God.I will keep my emotions in check for my joy will come from the Lord.I will instill in my grandchild that she is not alone and that I stand by her and stand up for her in all situations; but also to let her accept responsibility for her own actions.I will not try to be mother or father to her, always recognizing the void she feels, and I will try to fill that gap between her and her parents.I will teach her of God's unfailing love and how He made her unique and special, especially to let her live with me.I will be the Godly parent God has commissioned me to be and realize that that is the most precious gift I can give her.My labor of love is unconditional and sacrificial, but my rewards are great when I hear her laughter and her song.Everyday I will hug her with a big genuine embrace and I will say that I love her even after I see in her eyes that she already knows that.I will comfort her when she hurts and cry with her when the things of this world confound and confuse her.