Tuesday, May 01, 2007

Relaxing Divorce Laws

The Assemblies of God in Australia (which includes Hillsong) was expected to vote last week to relax their rules regarding grounds for divorce (sorry, I scoured the Web to find the results of the vote, but with no luck). Currently the church only blesses divorce in cases of adultery, but if this vote passes, it would include serious physical abuse and abandonment as valid grounds for separation. The move is provoking some controversy in Australia.

This is a tricky issue. On the one hand, the Bible makes it abundantly clear that divorce is evil and re-marriage after divorce is adultery. In Matthew 19, Jesus mentions fornication as a possible exception to this rule, which is why most conservative denominations have that as their only valid grounds for divorce.

However, that hard line puts pastors in an awkward position when faced with a woman who is being violently abused by her husband or a person whose spouse left him or her years ago. AOG Australia said that often their pastors found themselves "violating policy to help people," which is what caused them to rethink the policy in the first place.

INTERACT: What do you think? Is the Biblical standard clear or is there room for debate here? Is this a matter of scriptural clarity or more of a forgiveness issue?
Comments:
Update: The vote passed and the new guidelines are in place. Go to the "Media Releases" section of AOG Australia's site to read more. Thanks to Ralph Riggs for this update.
 
Of course no woman or man should have to remain in an abusive relationship (whether married or not). Forgiveness does not mean remaining and putting up with violence etc. That is a gross misrepresentation of what it means to forgive.
 
Hardness of heart causes divorce. For some the hardness of an unbending oppressive heart, for some an unyielding demanding heart, for others a rigid unforgiving heart. Sometimes the hardness comes from both sides, but it only needs to come from one to make the situation untenable. We need to be less pharisaical and more compassionate when it comes to this issue. A little dose of putting yourself into someone else's shoes would go a long way to alleviating the disease of smugness.
 
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