The good news is:
If you´re in Europe and fancy a gUd LaiF t-shirt, but don´t wish to pay the international shipping costs from the cafepress store, you can now check out the store at Spreadshirt!
Same designs, quicker and cheaper to your European door ;-)
Thanks for reading, enjoy!
The Carnegie Mellon professor whose vitality and approach to life -in spite of suffering from pancreatic cancer- has inspired many (I count myself among those) passed away today.
His ideas about achieving your childhood dreams have been a wake up call. They´ll remain with us, along with his memory.
Thank you Randy.
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Here´s the link to Professor Pausch´s Last Lecture on Carnegie Mellon, on December 2007, watched over 3 million times on YouTube.
Here´s the link to an interview on ABC news.
Here´s the link to his book, which he dictated to a friend while riding his bike.
Even Business Week featured an article with the business lessons from Randy Pausch´s last lecture.
Some of his quotes:
¨Never lose the childlike wonder. It´s just too important. It´s what drives us.¨
¨The brick walls are there for a reason. They're not there to keep us out. They are there to give us a chance to show how badly we want something.
Rest in Peace, Randy Pausch.
Thought of the Day from another Thought of the Day post, by metacool´s Diego RodrÃguez.
The quote is originally from John Mackey. The key part, to me is this:
The second piece of my evil plan is up and running ;-)
Say hello to little www.gudlaif.com.
gUd NaiT.
I allowed myself to make it happen.
Years ago this idea of ¨t-shirts that start conversations to inspire people¨ hit me. And hasn´t left.
Then this blog came along. Like I said on the third? post:
So...
Back by popular demand (no, motu proprio really) is the Trilogy ¨Blogging is like Sex¨ with its third (and final?) episode. Who would´ve thought you could find 19 similarities between both. Heh.
Wait!
If you haven´t done so yet, read the
first
and
second
chapters first for the full experience ;-)
Then enjoy the third:
Blogging is like Sex (III):
14. ¨He´s worried his post is not long enough for her...¨
15. You shouldn´t pay for someone to blog...you.
16. It´s not nice to accept money to blog for other people, either.
17. If I were you, I´d worry if you only post every six months.
18. I´d worry even more if you don´t get any comments about your [infrequent] posts.
19. There really is no good blogging without LOVE.
Got another? Leave a comment with it!
They call it the Corporate ladder. And they say you should climb it. That´s the goal.
I say the Corporate ladder is a state of mind. The wrong one to be in. I say it´s confusing goals with outcomes.*
Why?
When ¨moving up the corporate ladder¨ becomes your career´s goal, you do stuff that´ll take you up the ladder. Never mind sacrificing your passion for the sake of moving up the ladder you´re in.
Get off the [corporate] ladder!
I feel like making a series of t-shirts with these ideas in them. What do you think?
* For great examples of confusing goals with outcome, in the realm of trust, visit Charles Green´s blog.
A while ago I wrote this post about the similarities between blogging and sex.
Then I wrote a second post.
Lately, I´ve been getting a lot of visits from random countries, mostly Eastern Europe. I did my research, and...
As it turns out, if you google ¨sex laif ¨, the third hit is the first episode. Heh.
The third episode is almost ready. Now, for integrity´s sake, I need to make a t-shirt... Humor is another way of changing the world, no? ;-)
Stay tuned.
Do you live in Puerto Rico? Have you been getting lots of spam sms messages (unsolicited, irrelevant to you, stuff that just interrupts and annoys you) on your phone for a while now? Signed by ellow.mobi?
This is a street in Old San Juan.
The light was great for pictures that day. Photo taken with my iPhone.
But the coolest thing was the visit I placed Ben & Jerry´s after that ;-)
By the way, the owner of that B&J´s in Old San Juan is Michelle Campi, yep, that Michelle Campi.
Feel it yourself.
In short: Shel Israel is a renowned blogger, book writer and consultant, advising companies on how to adopt social media and ¨embrace the conversation¨, even when it´s hostile to you . Loren Feldman is a smart provocateur.
The story by Mike Arrington is here.
Bottom line: When faced with harsh criticism from Feldman, Israel did exactly the opposite he proclaims and makes a living out of.
That doesn´t make him a bad person. The hardest thing to do in life is to ALIGN your actions with your beliefs/predicaments, or ¨live your personal brand¨ if you want to put it that way. The problem is that, in that very hardest moment, you have to kill your ego. That´s the lesson we learn day in, day out.
No matter how many times we hear it, we agree on ¨the what¨. But ¨how?
Facebook now has 64 million registered users. That means 1 out of 100 people on Earth are registered.
Think about it...
With so many options available to us in every aspect of life, it is critical now more than ever to align your daily actions with your long term goals. And it is now easier than ever to find people with interests and beliefs aligned with yours.
One click away, not six degrees anymore.
Back by popular demand:
[Click here for the first episode of ¨Blogging is like sex¨. Thanks.]
8. Don´t ever think that post you wrote drunk at 5 AM impressed anyone...
9. Thou shall not covet your neighbor´s blog.
10. ¨I´ve seen his blog. Nothing to be impressed about...¨
11. They say you should blog to please yourself first.
12. Yes, it´s a myth: No one can post 10 times a day.
13. Having a blog does not mean you´re going to post everyday.
Another sunset...the third of the series.
The first one I took in Aruba.
The second one in Miami.
This one´s here in San Juan, Puerto Rico.
There´s always something special with sunsets.
Web 2.0 = human dynamics 101.
That's my opinion. These web 2.0 tools we have today are just enablers for us to interact, in the same way we do offline, on a larger scale and faster pace.
One unexpected feature of these tools is that they drive control freaks crazy. Why? Cause you cannot control the interactions that take place when you use them. Hence, the need for authenticity and transparency, of really focusing on the other side of the interaction, rather than your own.
Authenticity and transparency nurture trust. The problem with not understanding these tools, is that you will never align your behaviors online with those that a connected, hyperlinked world values. At the core, these are non other than, I think, our true nature.
Blogging is like Sex.
...is that humans are not resources.
When utilizing a resource, such as fuel, it gets used, burns out and all remainings are waste. It doesn´t benefit from the interaction in any way. Not a good analogy for humans, although all too familiar sometimes.
Humans want realization. The problem with treating humans as resources is that it might be ALIGNED with a company´s needs for something to use and burn out, but certainly not with humans´ wants.
I´ve been thinking about this for weeks. Today I read Seth Godin´s point of view: why not a VP of Talent.
Today someone gave us a presentation on his product. Things I remember in no particular order:
1. Seven bullet points in a single slide, all appearing at the same time...as an introduction.
2. Misspellings in several pages.
3. ¨Yes, I´ll answer that but first let me show you this other feature because if not we´ll be here ´til tomorrow morning¨. (yes, he did say that).
4. He spoke for 20 minutes more than we had agreed.
The message I got was:
2,000 visits and counting! Thanks for stopping by, seriously. Attention is a gift, so I appreciate your reading this.
Be gud. Live laif. ;-)
3pm, exhausting day @ work, your mind starts spinning...You come up with a suspiciously funny joke:
¨How do they mute a phone in [insert favorite place here]?¨
Will you marry your idea of me!????
Update: Craig Harper says it better. Read his post the morning after posting mine. Talk about coincidence. Worth reading ;-)
So it turns out that trying to get something from someone is really not a selfish act. At least not if you want to be successful.
Dale Carnegie wrote ¨How to win friends and influence people¨. A central idea to the book is that there is only one way to make someone do something; and that is by making that person WANT to do it.
So the next question is: how to MAKE someone WANT to do something?
Enter Charles Green, author of ¨The Trusted Advisor¨ blog. ¨In order to get someone to buy from you something she needs, first you need to understand what it is that she wants (in life).¨
Is what you´re asking for ALIGNED with the other person´s values and desires?
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