So, how would your church look like if we change it to meet all age groups' expectations and philosophical outlook/thinking? First, it isn't about the music. I hope you see this now after reading the first four parts of this series (links at the end of this post). Music is one component, but not the only one. I can only offer insights here but do want your feedback too. I want you to understand that we are working with three major generational groups--the WWII generation which includes those a little younger and those a little older, mainly those over 63; the Baby Boomer (BB's) generation (including the younger Baby Busters), mainly 41-62; and the Postmodern (PM's) generation, mainly 18-40.
Here are the major components of most church services:
Worship Through Music
WWII people want hymns. BB's want 1970's-80's praise music. PM's want - I'm not sure how to describe this without singing it to you, but here goes:
"Jesus!!!" (heavy metal guitar twangs and lots of drums banging). "We love you Jesus!!" (Bam, Bam; Boom; Boom.; Crash; Loud twang, twang).
But the postmoderns also like hymns and Gregorian chants or anything Roman Catholic (anybody catch what I jsut said?).
So, we probably need all three types of music for the three generational groups. Churches would need to work with each generaltional group to help them accept the other styles they may not like. And from time to time, why not include youth musicians or a youth band if your church has one in the service.
Worship through Offerings of Money
PM's want to come up to the front and give their money, not sit in their seats. PM's like to participate. This might be a bit disturbing to the WWII generation although I think the BB's will not mind. So, perhaps have both? Those who want to come up can and those who want to sit in their seat--hey! We'll pass the bucket too.
Announcements and Sharing of Testimonies (The PM's Call This Stories)
Have lots of people making announcements, not just one person. PM's like to participate. I don't think anyone would mind this. BUT, we need people from all generations to do these things, not just from one generation. And why not include the youth too (12-17) at times.
Sermon/Teaching
A short message (story--not a lecture) with discussion and questions asked during or afterwards. PM's like to participate. The WWII's won't like this and lots of BB's won't either. If these two generational groups get antagonistic, then do a mix and try to work with the PM's to accept this. Point out to them it is a trade-off. If they will sit through the 45 min. "lecture," they have the opportunity at least to do church with other age groups and they get to see what is meaningful to those groups. This approach just might work.
Other Things PM's Like
Lots of art and audiovisuals to enhance the "experience." They like to mill around at different places in the church looking at art and going to prayer stations and stuff like that. PM"s like to participate. This definintiely will upset the WWII's and probalby many BB's. Again, churches need to help other generational groups to be patient and allow some change and innovation. Perhaps you could do this slowly about once a month and have "regular" church the other three weeks.
Seating
Tear out the pews. Put in chairs and arrange them in a semi-circle. Take out the platform as the speaker and worship people need to be on the same level. No binaries--everyone equal...no one is marginalized.
I think that WWII's might not like this at first as they might see this as irreverant. But eventually they and many of the BB's will get used to it and perhaps even like it.
DO NOT CHANGE THIS
Do not change the content of the gospel. There is a great post at a blog that I saw today and I will share it tomorrow. It really illustrates this point. It's like changing the presentation and illustrations of Campus Crusade's Four Laws without messing with the content message. That is what I think we will eventually be doing, or we 'll lose our churches. Some think this is a fad. But in my reading and talking to a few postmoderns I don't see this at all. I see it as the BIG philosophical change I talked about in the first four parts of this series. And I think it's here to stay.
(You can read the other parts at these links:
Part 1
Part 2
Part 3
Part 4)