The Gallivantings of Daniel Franklin Gomez

Finding the Right Partner

Posted on 16. May, 2008 by Gallivanter in Relationship

Please be realistic. We are all searching for THE one, but everyone is flawed. Of course, set your expectations high, but not too high until no one can meet them. There’s nothing wrong in searching for someone who’s accomplished and educated, but to insist that she looks like a model is not.

You will meet a lot of people that will not interest you, I know I did. Just think of it like searching for that great job, it takes a lot of effort but it will be worth it. Don’t just depend on online dating, but pick up a new hobby and find a partner who shares the same interest.

Did you know that a well-written profile will say a lot about your instead of an OTT drama profile that will attract the wrong crowd? Look at your profile through the eyes of a job hunter, i.e. resume. Ensure that it’s accurate. Do not dramatize.

One thing I used to do after getting a lady’s number, is to “interview” her on the phone – it helped me minimize contact with someone who could’ve been wrong for me. In order to find her, learn to filter out all the wrongs, and take some precautions, use your instinct, you can increase your chances of meeting the person of your dreams.

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