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March 27, 2008

The Story We Find Ourselves In

Our Easter series is off to an Epic start!  I don't know that I've ever been more excited to develop a series of messages than I am about the messages in Epic.  We kicked off the series this past Sunday with an intro called The Story We Find Ourselves In.  I'm really hoping that many of our guests on Sunday will connect for the rest of the journey.

Click here to either listen to or download the kickoff to the series.

You can also subscribe to the podcast here.

March 26, 2008

A Vision for our City

It's tough seeing Mayor Kilpatrick's mug shot every time I pick up a paper or turn on the news.  Detroit already suffers from a rough reputation across the country.  It's time for our city to begin making positive news.  For this to happen, it's imperative that all followers of Jesus spend more time praying for our city then whining, speculating, complaining, or gawking.

This week at Church of the King is Week of War.  Tonight at our midweek prayer service we'll be praying over Metro Detroit.  We'll be specifically praying for the urban blueprint in Isaiah 65.18-25 to become reality in our city.  It's an awesome collection of characteristics that will define the New Jerusalem.

Public Celebrations and Happiness (v 17) Public Health for Children and the Elderly (v 20) Housing for Everyone (v 21) Food for Everyone (v 22) Enjoyable Employment (v 22) Prosperous Economy (v 22-23) Blessed Pregnancies without Abortion (v 23) Strong Family Units and Legacy (v 23) Total Absence of Violence (v 25) Unusual and Diverse Relationships (v 25)

Since Jesus told us to pray for heaven to come to earth, we'll be asking Him to make the New Detroit look like the New Jerusalem.  This vision is a blue-print for change.

Our mission is simple: Connecting our City to Christ.  And if that happens there just isn't any aspect of culture that shouldn't change.

Click here if you'd like to access the prayer guide including notes and prayer points.

March 24, 2008

Weekend Reflections

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Wow!  Trying to catch my breath today from an AMAZING weekend.  Here are some highlights:

Had a blast on Good Friday with some of our leaders by attending the U2Charist at Real Church.  I'm really proud of my friend Chilly and his team.  Real Church has grown by almost 50% just this year! Four was a great number for us yesterday.  We had four people baptized and another four people make commitments to Christ!  New life on Resurrection Sunday! Yesterday we had the largest children's attendance on a Sunday in the history of our church.  47 kids packed into the kid's services as JT and her team introduced Epic and the time machine. Tal, Glenn and the guys worked around the clock to prepare Guest Central for the launch of our new guest reception.  We knocked out a wall and some office space to open up a new area just off the lobby.  I loved having a dedicated area for Leah and I to connect with so many guests after the services. I was really proud of all our ministry teams who put in so much extra in order to pull together the two services.  We needed both of them and our leaders made it happen! We kicked off the Epic series.  Can't wait to see what God does this Spring! Enjoyed sharing my first Easter with my bride as a married man!  She was all over the place yesterday, launching the guest reception, helping me open both services, and even working in the nursery during the first service.  What did I ever do without this girl? I'm gearing up for a great week, including a visit from this guy and this guy on Thursday.

Happy week after Easter!  Let's make it a memorable one:)

March 20, 2008

Epic for Kids

Time_machine_2I'm really proud of JT.  She has taken the upcoming Epic series and customized it for the kids in our church.  She's written our own curriculum so that parents and kids can journey through the series together.

Yesterday she and Leah finished T-Morp 7.46, the Epic time machine.  Can't wait for the kids to meet him on Sunday:)

March 17, 2008

Easter, Obama, and a Personal Invite

On Friday I read an article detailing some elements of Barack Obama's campaign strategy.  He is drawing crowds of more than 20,000 partly because no one has to buy a ticket.  All you have to do to attend his "megarally" is turn over your email address or phone number.  One of his organizers shares why:

"Events are not just an opportunity for us to put Barack in front of voters.  It's a chance for voters to be in a captive environment where we ask them to sign up and do more for Barack--to make phone calls, canvas, get out the vote.  We don't want people to just come to an event--we want them to become part of this movement."

I wish every church could claim that last sentence as their own. 

What if we launched a similar movement this week on behalf of King Jesus, not to get him elected, but to see that He is exalted

Easter is a serendipitous window of opportunity.  So let's rock the vote!  Do what you can.  Get on the phoneCanvas.  Walk through your office building.  Drop in on your neighbors.  Let's get them to church this Sunday!

Sunday Rewind

I really enjoyed kicking off Passion Week yesterday with our church family.  My dad preached from Philippians 2 and painted a vivid picture of the uniqueness of Jesus.

At the end of the service we handed out wrapped Easter baskets to everyone in the church who was willing to give them away to a friend this week.  The baskets were filled with various goodies, as well as an invitation to the launch of the Epic series this Sunday.  They're all over Metro Detroit today!

82% of people who don't attend church say that they would attend if a friend asked them.  82%!  With Easter just six days away, we've got a real opportunity this week to put Jesus in front of hundreds of neighbors.

March 15, 2008

Hanging With a Legend

This afternoon I had the privilege of spending about three hours with Dr. Gary Collins.  Previously I've got to know this Christian counseling pioneer through his big books I've been required to read for class.  But reading the books can't quite compare to conversation with the author

Several things struck me as we sipped our lattes.

Gary (the name he insisted I use) redefined for me what it means to be seventy-three years old.  He works out several times a week.  He published a new book last year and revised an old one.  He actively seeks out opportunities to hang with young men.  He constantly asks great questions.  And he's extremely well informed regarding current trends in ministry.  Three of his most recent reads: UnChristian, Off Road Disciplines, and The New Christians.

Dr. Collins also shared the backstory to much of the criticism he's had to face as a pioneer in his field.  He began writing several years ago, at a time when psychology was really looked down upon by the majority of Christian leaders.  It was fascinating to hear how he braved a fierce debate and blazed a trail for hundreds of Christian counselors.

Some of the nuggets of advice that will stay with me:

On Marriage:

Your wife will usually feel the criticism you receive more than you will. Respect is a key to building a healthy relationship.  Never move ahead with a major decision until she is in absolute agreement. Keep laughing together. Help your wife develop her own, unique identity.

On Life and Ministry:

Don't travel alone.  Use your trips as opportunities to journey with someone. Never stop asking questions or wrestling with tension. When I get depressed I ask myself, "What am I angry about?"

On Getting Published:

Answer two foundational questions: What do I have to say?  Who am I saying it to? Read.  All the time.  Especially from those authors who would have similar answers to the previous two questions. Write as often as you can to develop the skill. Be prepared to explain to a publisher what makes your book different. I don't always write because I'm an expert on the subject.  I also write to learn. Watch for opportunities to publish articles.  They have the potential to give you credibility with publishers.

Toward the end of our conversation, Gary asked me how he would be able to continue to learn from me.  Yep, you read that right:)  My response:

I might be willing to coach you, but I'm not sure that you can afford my rates.

OK, not really:)  But he did ask the question.  And when he did he reminded me that good teachers become great teachers because they never stop learning...

from anyone they can:)

March 14, 2008

The Little Man

Brand new pics of the world's finest nephew!

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March 13, 2008

Becoming Helpful

I'm at class this week studying interpersonal techniques for helping relationships (which is a fancy marketing term for pastoral counseling).  Here are a few random thoughts that have stood out:

Preaching can reduce a pastor's counseling load if it is therapeutic.  Helpful preaching is Bible-based and relevant to life.  It also invites an intentional response through which people can be healed.  If we allow for and expect healing to take place through our preaching, it can become a type of group therapy session. I do more counseling than I think.  I've never considered myself a counselor, but I'm realizing how much counseling I really do during the course of a ministry week.  Most of it happens informally outside of my office. You don't have to be a professional therapist to become a great counselor.  Becoming naturally therapeutic is the process of developing the interpersonal skills that will make you helpful in your relationships (stuff like empathy, authenticity, transparency, and compassion). Listening may be the most underrated relationship skill.  It's powerful, and challenging, especially for fix-it types like me:)

Dr. Gary Collins is with us today and tomorrow.  He's the godfather of Christian counseling and has written about 60 books.  Pretty cool to get two days with a guy who's had so much infuence.

March 11, 2008

Website Redesign

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We're at the tail end of a redesign of the Church of the King website (the church I planted and continue to lead).  We decided to use Church Plant Media to do the project.  They were really high touch during the design process and our team is really happy with the content management system.  If you're looking for help with some web design I'd recommend them.

Pretty excited about some of the new capabilities the revamped site gives us.

Check it out here.

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2008 Reads

Bob Roberts Jr.: The Multiplying Church: The New Math for Starting New Churches

Bob Roberts Jr.: The Multiplying Church: The New Math for Starting New Churches

: The Art & Craft of Biblical Preaching: A Comprehensive Resource for Today's Communicators

The Art & Craft of Biblical Preaching: A Comprehensive Resource for Today's Communicators

Parker J. Palmer: The Courage to Teach: Exploring the Inner Landscape of a Teacher's Life

Parker J. Palmer: The Courage to Teach: Exploring the Inner Landscape of a Teacher's Life

Timothy Keller: The Reason for God: Belief in an Age of Skepticism

Timothy Keller: The Reason for God: Belief in an Age of Skepticism

C.S. Lewis: Out of the Silent Planet (Space Trilogy, Book One)

C.S. Lewis: Out of the Silent Planet (Space Trilogy, Book One)

James M. Kouzes: The Leadership Challenge, 4th Edition

James M. Kouzes: The Leadership Challenge, 4th Edition

Khaled Hosseini: The Kite Runner

Khaled Hosseini: The Kite Runner

Andy Stanley: Communicating for a Change: Seven Keys to Irresistible Communication

Andy Stanley: Communicating for a Change: Seven Keys to Irresistible Communication

Barack Obama: The Audacity of Hope: Thoughts on Reclaiming the American Dream

Barack Obama: The Audacity of Hope: Thoughts on Reclaiming the American Dream

John P. Kotter: Leading Change

John P. Kotter: Leading Change

Katherine Catlin: Leading at the Speed of Growth: Journey from Entrepreneur to CEO (Kauffman Center for Entrepreneurial Leadership)

Katherine Catlin: Leading at the Speed of Growth: Journey from Entrepreneur to CEO (Kauffman Center for Entrepreneurial Leadership)

Jim Collins: Good to Great: Why Some Companies Make the Leap... and Others Don't

Jim Collins: Good to Great: Why Some Companies Make the Leap... and Others Don't

C. Gene Wilkes: Jesus on Leadership

C. Gene Wilkes: Jesus on Leadership

Ram Charan: The Leadership Pipeline: How to Build the Leadership Powered Company

Ram Charan: The Leadership Pipeline: How to Build the Leadership Powered Company

Clara E. Hill: Helping Skills: Facilitating Exploration, Insight, and Action

Clara E. Hill: Helping Skills: Facilitating Exploration, Insight, and Action

Jacquelyn Small: Becoming Naturally Therapeutic: A Return To The True Essence Of Helping

Jacquelyn Small: Becoming Naturally Therapeutic: A Return To The True Essence Of Helping

Gary R. Collins: Christian Counseling Casebook
Gene Wood: Leading Turnaround Churches

Gene Wood: Leading Turnaround Churches

Rob Bell: Sex God: Exploring the Endless Connections between Sexuality and Spirituality

Rob Bell: Sex God: Exploring the Endless Connections between Sexuality and Spirituality

Dan Kimball: The Emerging Church: Vintage Christianity for New Generations

Dan Kimball: The Emerging Church: Vintage Christianity for New Generations

Jim Herrington: Leading Congregational Change : A Practical Guide for the Transformational Journey

Jim Herrington: Leading Congregational Change : A Practical Guide for the Transformational Journey

Thom S. Rainer: Breakout Churches: Discover How To Make The Leap

Thom S. Rainer: Breakout Churches: Discover How To Make The Leap

Dan Southerland: Transitioning

Dan Southerland: Transitioning

Ed Stetzer: Comeback Churches: How 300 Churches Turned Around and Yours Can, Too

Ed Stetzer: Comeback Churches: How 300 Churches Turned Around and Yours Can, Too


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