
Odysseus and Penelope. The Louvre.
Guys make stuff. That's not all they do, but if you've got a healthy male, you're going to have stuff "gittin' made." Oh yes, women make things, children make things, sick and old guys make things, but the SINE QUA NON of being a guy in his prime is making things.
Making = work
Sustaining = labor.
Hannah Arendt, in The Human Condition helped me to understand what it means to be human, in faith, art and science. She distinguished, or explained the distinction that exists, between work and labor. In my own words, work is the process of making something new come into existence, so that the new thing takes on a life of its own. Labor is the process of making something happen that is related to necessity and consumption, mainly for keeping life going.
Building a bed is Work.
Making up a bed after sleeping on it is Labor.
Impregnating a woman is Work.
Delivering a baby is Labor.
A wife teaching her husband how to carry responsibility --so she can live a life of Labor under his auspices--is Work.
A man wooing a woman so that he can marry her, love her for the rest of his life, and provide for her and her children, and make babies through her--so that he can live a life of Work through her-- is Labor.
Common Grace and Natural Law.
There is no distinction in honor or worthiness or merit between Work and Labor, according to the Bible. Both are honored, and required, as a matter of fact. Just as God gives good gifts to all people, regardless of nationality or status--the rain falls on the just and the unjust, all people everywhere have enjoyed the benefits of marriage of a man and woman--so God seems to impose some demands on all people everywhere, such as that it is necessary to exert oneself. Sometimes that exertion is in labor, sometimes that exertion is in work. But all people everywhere, everywhen, have to exert themselves to work or labor, upon pain of hunger or sickness or loneliness or social rejection. Even children are honored by the works that they make.

