Posted by: Shay on: December 4, 2008
I apologize for not updating a lot recently! We’ve been busy (well, moderately busy) with my hubby being on vacation, holidays and working around the house! I promise to get back to regular posting as soon as possible! ![]()
Posted by: Shay on: November 30, 2008
1. Yes, by all means - please tell me how HUGE I’m getting. I love you overemphasizing the fact that I am now a beached whale and that I am “obviously” going to be having twins. Also: telling me how tired, crappy or cranky I look is DEFINITELY a way to get on my good side.
2. We probably do have a couple names in mind but go ahead and harrass me about whether or not we’ve decided and what YOU think is the perfect name. By all means! I mean it’s only my baby.
3. I do actually realize that I’m pregnant and that’s one reason why I’m easily irritated and I sometimes cry for no reason. That fact does not make it any easier to deal with when I’m in mid-hysterics and is not always the case.
4. Your endless stories about how you had to birth a 17 pound baby for 35 hours which they ended up prying from your womanly areas with a pair of pliers? Yeah. This is me ignoring them.
5. Why don’t I just fill you out some paperwork on where I’m giving birth, who my doctors are, what medications I will or won’t be having and what hospital I’ll be at? That way you’ll have all the pertinent information and can then give all your opinions about EVERYTHING, with no worries of me interrupting.
6. I am not jolly and I will not be playing Santa this Christmas. End of story.
7. Don’t ask me if I have any of the pregnancy woes that often befall us preggos. You might get more than you bargained for. “Why yes, I do have cankles! Thanks for asking! Would you like to see my hemmorhoids and varicose veins too?!”
8. I may snap or lash out at you. Most of the time, I honestly don’t mean to. It could be the hormones, the lack of sleep, the worrying or just pregnancy in general. This doesn’t give me a license to be mean though so if I apologize, accept it and move on. And just be glad I didn’t have guns or something large to chuck at your head.
9. PLEASE do not compare your pregnancy to mine. Here’s a fact: All women are different. So obviously, it’s pretty much a given that we will experience things differently. So just because I did something differently or am planning to do something different than you, that does not mean that you had it worse or that I was a chicken.
10. The real things pregnant women love?
- Being told they’re beautiful or gorgeous. Really any kind of nice compliment will do!
- Being showered with love: be it through a baby shower, helping them around their house, babysitting for them, massaging their feet or even talking to them - just do something that will help them or make them feel special.
- And last but certainly not least - being encouraged and loved! Tell your preggo friend or family member how much you love them and how proud you are of them! I know they will appreciate it.
Posted by: Shay on: November 30, 2008
Obviously we know that breast is best when it comes to feeding babies, but if you don’t have that option (for whatever reason) you’re going to end up spending a lot of money on formula! Here’s some helpful hints to consider when purchasing infant formula:
- Don’t mess with the pre-mixed liquid formula. Yes, it is more convenient - but you’ve still got to warm it up and it’s also a lot more expensive than the powder kind.
- Buy the largest can possible! Well, let me rephrase that…look at the label to see the unit price. Often the larger cans cost less per ounce (or unit) than the smaller cans. Sometimes buying in bulk at places like Costco and Sam’s Club is cheaper too.
- Definitely check to see if you qualify for any state or government programs like WIC. These are very helpful programs that educate women on nutrition, health and feeding your children. If you qualify, they may provide you with a certain amount of formula and/or food a month. They often have classes available to help you learn more about how to feed your children and yourself.
- When trying to decide between the pricier brands and the generic, heed this advice from the Mayo Clinic: “All infant formulas sold in the United States must meet the same nutrient standards set by the FDA. Although manufacturers may vary in their formula recipes, the FDA requires that all formulas contain the same nutrient density.” So my advice would be to check the labels and see what they tell you.
Posted by: Shay on: November 24, 2008
Just thought I would share the recipes I’m going to try and make for Turkey Day this year! Click below to read all the recipes.
Posted by: Shay on: November 24, 2008
Just thought I would do another rather random personal update. I went to visit the midwife today for my monthly (which is now going to be twice monthly) appointment. It went well. Baby is doing just fine. I think she was taking a nap because she wasn’t very cooperative when the midwife wanted to find her heartbeat. I did my glucose test and of course had to get blood drawn from hand - my arm veins are wimps and they run (or should that be roll?) in fear of needles. We discussed my Birth Plan (or Birth Wish List as my midwife likes to call it, haha) and I brought it home with me to look over with Hubby and finish writing up. She told me that they now scan your Birth Plan into the computer and put it with your file so the hospital will have it all times. Pretty neat, I think. I got us signed up for Natural Childbirth Classes in January.
After I left there, I headed to Toys R Us where I got Zeke’s “big” present for this year - a Just Like Home My Very Own Kitchen and Cart Playset. They had it on sale for $30 which is the cheapest I’ve seen so far for a little kitchen. Plus, it comes with the shopping cart, pots, utensils and a food set. He’s been really into helping around the house (washing dishes, putting up clothes, etc.) so I knew it would be something he liked. And it was a good thing I went today because for one, the sale ended today and for two, they only had three of the kitchen sets left. I didn’t tell Hubby but I assume that is something we will set up on Christmas Eve since it says “easy adult assembly required.” I’m sure it will fill him with joy.
After that, I stopped by Wal-Mart and picked up a few other things. I’m going to be taking some more supplements so I went and picked those up and a medicine case since I have so many stinking pills to take. I feel like an old lady!
I’m excited for Thanksgiving this week!
It’s probably my second favorite holiday. (Christmas is obviously my first.) I love this type of week too. Hubby has Thursday & Friday off so we are hanging out with the fam on Thursday (obviously) and the men of the family are going hunting that afternoon/evening. We are going shopping on Black Friday and are hoping to get all of Christmas shopping done that day. It would be nice not to have to worry about doing any more as the season goes on. I am planning on making several different desserts for my family’s big Thanksgiving Feast and I’m going to try and post the recipes on here this evening, just in case you were curious. Is anyone else doing anything special?
Posted by: Shay on: November 21, 2008
Madagascar 2: Escape to Africa
Rated: PG
Time: 1 hour, 29 minutes
About the Movie: Madagascar 2: Escape to Africa is the sequel to the 2005 animated children’s movie about a lion, a zebra, a hippopotamus and a giraffe who escape the Central Park Zoo in New York City and end up on the island of Madagascar. This time, with the help of a group of clever penguins, they manage to build a plane and fly to Africa. With the voices of Ben Stiller, Chris Rock, Jada Pinkett-Smith, David Schwimmer, Sacha Baron Cohen, Cedric The Entertainer, Alec Baldwin, Bernie Mac, Sherri Shepherd, Tom McGrath, Elisa Pensler-Gabrielli and Andy Richter. Directed by Eric Darnell & Tom McGrath.
What We Thought: Before I discuss the movie I just want to rant about movie theaters! Holy crap are movies expensive. I used to go to the movies ALL THE TIME in High School (which wasn’t THAT long ago) and there’s no way I’d be able to afford it now! It’s ridiculous. We even went to the early show and it was still expensive. The good thing about Kerasotes Theatres is that they do have the Five Buck Club - although we couldn’t use it yesterday. The Five Buck Club allows you to see a movie - after it has been out for at least two weeks - for five bucks. The Club is free and you can sign up for email updates on what movies you can see with it. If you have a Kerasotes Theatre in your area, I’d definitely check it out. Even if you only go occasionally, it’s still an easy way to save money.
In regards to the movie, it wasn’t too bad. I didn’t think it was as good as the original but it was still good. It was interesting to see the family element with Alex the Lion. There were several innuendos in this movie that I thought might have been slightly questionable for older children but nothing serious. Two hippos are checking each other out and are talking about how they like them big and chunky, lots of talk about love and dating, etc. If nothing else, I think the movie might have provoked some thoughtful discussions about love being able to endure all things and friendship. But the littler ones obviously wouldn’t get a lot of that. Zeke was very good and only got distracted once or twice during the movie. He was a little frightened during a couple of the action sequences in the movie but I didn’t think there was anything too bad in it. I recognized a lot of different voices - I especially liked Alec Baldwin and Bernie Mac’s characters. There was a nice little tribute to Bernie at the end, which I thought was nice.
Posted by: Shay on: November 21, 2008
Are you working on potty training with your little one? Then check out this free potty training kit from Pampers. I’m definitely getting one! It comes with:
- A free sample of Pampers Easy Up Trainers
- Coupons!
- Stickers and coloring pages
- Potty training tips
- Potty progress chart
- Dora or Diego training trophy
Click here to get one for yourself. Just fill out the info and you’ll recieve yours in 4-6 weeks.
Posted by: Shay on: November 20, 2008
Johnson & Johnson has recalled 12,000 bottles of Mylicon Infant Dye-Free Gas-relief drops due to the possibility that some bottles may contain metal fragments. The recalled drops come in one ounce plastic bottles and were sold over-the-counter on or after October 5, 2008. The lot numbers of the drops are SMF007 and SMF008, and the numbers can be found on the bottom of the recalled boxes or on the lower left side of the bottle’s sticker.
Posted by: Shay on: November 19, 2008
After seeing someone in a Natural Childbirth group on Facebook quote something by Henci Goer, I immediately went & looked her up. I wanted to share a little bit with you from her book, The Thinking Woman’s Guide to a Better Birth:
Obstetricians treat women laboring slowly the way Peter Pan treated the Lost Boys. He expected everyone to adapt to his ideas of the way things should be. If they didn’t, Peter saw to it that they did. For example, the boys entered the Neverland underground home through hollow trees. If a boy didn’t fit his tree, James Barrie writes, Peter “did something” to the boy. So too with obstetric management. Obstetricians have inflexible ideas of how labor ought to go. If your labor doesn’t conform to that pattern, typical doctors “do something” to you to make you fit. There are, as you may gather, a number of drawbacks to this myopic approach.
Doctors set the cutoff defining “abnormal” progress in dilation at 12 hours for first-time mothers and 6 hours for women with previous births because, according to the standard-setting studies, only 5% of women will take longer than this. However, the new study found that average duration in first-time mothers was 7 1/2 hours, not 6, and the threshold for abnormal, fell at 19 1/2 hours, not 12, in first-time mothers and over 13 1/2 hours, not 6, in women with prior births. The standard also stipulates smooth, linear progress. More than a relatively brief halt is thought to require action. However, averaging many labors together evens out the variations. Individual labors often don’t work this way.
As a result of obstetric impatience and injudicious management, in 1995, about one in five U.S. women who began labor on their own had oxytocin stimulation (augmentation), and nearly 176,000 women had cesareans for failure to progress, prolonged labor, labor dystocia (dysfunctional labor), or cephalopelvic disproportion (the baby didn’t fit). These diagnoses are all ways of saying the baby didn’t come out within somebody’s idea of a reasonable time, but “reasonable” is primarily a matter of philosophy, not physiology, as the enormous variation in the rates of oxytocin use and instrumental and cesarean delivery among caregivers attests. As one editorialist all too aptly put it, “Unfortunately, we have spent the last 25 years managing labor without knowing what we do.”
I’m definitely going to be picking up a copy of this book! It looks really informative. Even though I’ve already given birth once and I know what I want this time, I don’t think it hurts to be well read. There are so many good resources out there - I definitely think we should take advantage of them. What book did you find most informative regarding childbirth?
EDIT: I updated this post because I’m an idiot! Had a bit of pregnancy brain and wrote the wrong title for the book. It’s actually “The Thinking Woman’s Guide to a Better Birth“. Sorry about that!
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